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my husband i used to behave like a woman always and he looks very Pretty like a woman.. he used to wear my clothes when im not in home but i knew that...now he is asking me to wear my sarees i allow him for oneday to wear i shocked he lookzzz very Pretty like a woman shall i allow him to wear always.......

Hello,

Well i am going to marry after 3 months,everyhting is prepared for the marriage,Wedding Dress, jewellery,etc,

my would be Hubby prefers Jeans & Wester Dress as compared to traditional indian dresses after marriage,, i am going to married in a very modern family,,

i want to know abt my dressing sense after marriage ,,,

well should i go for few jeans or for traditional suit salwar or sarees ,,the problem is that i don't want to upset my Hubby,,,,,so kindly pls help me,,,,,,,,,

Thanks

In an international party in 2100, which will be the most famous dress for women.

(NOTE: Don't take it too seriously or as a racist question.)

1) Jeans
http://www.pimp-my-sims.com/uploads/tx_pmsdownloads/funny_FEcasual_jeansshirtBlack.jpg

2) Saree
http://www.saree.org.in/_image/Printed-saree.jpg
http://www.blog-city.info/en/img5/541_Aishwarya.jpg

3) Kimono
http://schools.4j.lane.edu/yujingakuen/images-culture/kimono.jpg
http://www.risingsunimports.com/howtowearkimono/finalfront.jpg

4) Gown
http://www.germes-online.com/direct/dbimage/50287437/Bridal_Gown.jpg
http://www.discountbridal.org/images/Alyce-prom-dresses/Alycedesigns-Black-Label-5041-prom-evening-gown-ballgown_md.jpg

5) Burqa
http://www.javno.com/slike/slike_3/r1/g2007/m10/x134152039590521508_0.jpg

I wear sarees mostly and blouses! Its always been a worry for me that the outline and colour of my bra is revealed through my blouse!

I am very fair in colour! You can say whitish-brown!

All my bras are either white or black!

Which is better, white or black when it comes to bra?

I'm going to a Hindu/Indian wedding next month and I have a saree to wear, but I'm not sure on the shoes. Should I wear flats, sandals, low heal, high heal... Any ideas???

I am going to a church wedding followed by a reception at a hotel.I am an Indian (not native-Indian , like people from Asia) and very conservative. I do not wear dresses -like cocktail dresses or gowns. i wear conservative American clothing like long sleeves shirts, and pants and sweaters.
SO my question is,
-can i wear a saree to the wedding?
-do i have to have two different outfits for church and reception?
I talked to the groom and he said that there is no dress code.

will it be offensive if i wear indian dress?
or, can i wear some dressy blouse and pants?
i am new to american culture..the wedding is my husband's friend's.

red gold and green

hi, i want to tell my wife and my family that i want to wear ladies clothes every day 24 hours. and live like a ladies how i tell them. i want to wear saree, dress, etc. every day. one day my wife force me to wear saree and go to charchgate and come back i did, when i take a ladies couch in train everyone look at my side. i feel very shy but most of say feel like a ladies. i love that time. so what should i do? i want that they alll treated with me as ladies and accept me. what type of clothes i should wear. which type of make-up i should do?

i have to attend marriage in Dec in north india .can u please suggest me what stuf & colour should i wear.what r the colours in fashion for winters.i want to wear a good party saree with resonable rates.any shops in b'lore for good sarees & suits?

the function date is 29 of june 2008 at 1.pm

i hava torquoise dress and though really deep purple will go great but i cant get any jewellery to match i am wearing black satin hi heels and hava black clutch dont want purple acessories any other suggestions?

its for a formal ocassion

this is the colour

http://humjoli.net/images/products/torquoise_pink_saree_a.jpg
http://img.alibaba.com/photo/11394724/Stylish_Enamel_Torquoise_Necklace.jpg
http://www.worldosigns.co.uk/colourchart/64_torquoise_M4-366M.jpg

not likeing silver or gold realy i want a bold colour

We're in Bangalore. My husband's office is having a formal evening gathering (not a sit-down dinner) but the dress code is black tie or its Indian equivalent. Do I HAVE TO wear a saree? I'm Punjabi and not very comfortable in it (tripped and fell down the last time I wore it.) And can my husband wear a formal kurta-pyjama (dark with embroidery, etc.)? HELP!!! The event is just 10 days away.

can anyone gimme the address too

1) why modern girls in india are wearing western dresses like jeans, 1 piece,2 piece etc which clearily shows their structure, size and shape?????what is the need for that kind of dress??? dnt u hav traditional indian dresses(sarees,half sarees,chudidhar,skirts and tops) and other good dresses????

2) am not saying all indian girls but a few ( but day by day the no is fastly increasing)????? whether they hav forgotton tht we hav great culture and tradition...pls dnt argue that we hav all the freedom and rights ...here i want to convey u one thg clearly that indian girls had their freedom and rights more than what they feel now they hav....no dnt wry and dnt argue my dear indian sisters they had it right frm vedic period of india where they can choose husband on their own willingness and they contributed some parts of vedas and even they questioned the ancient Rishis regarding god, athma , karma and yugyas like a fire and bold manner,,,,,they performed yugyas,progithams and poojas even in their menstrual period also as getting period is not at all an obstacle in vedic periods,even they had jeevanamsam when husband divorce her in vedic period and she had full freedom to choose new person for life they also ruled our nations and they also fought against muslim invadors and even the british people example take Rani lakshmi bhai...(johnsy rani) including many princess....only in india (hindus)u hav many goddess equivalent to that of male gods...only in india we celebrate navaratri or desara a 10 days festival dedicated to female god saraswathi, lakshmi and parvathi...these are all truth and facts of india but unfortunatley certain things are slowly restricted to women at those days after vedic period bcoz of some selfish male,i agree it......

but today some leaders are wrongly misguiding u by saying female freedoms are denied and females are not given respectable positions....beaware of these dirty vote bank politicians ......bcoz it is only in india where mothers are treated as god now a days also in our family ask ur son isn't it so??????

if a male has become saint even his father has to worship him first but it is not so for mothers......it is reversed only for mothers i.e the boy / man who has become saint must first worship her mother than anythg and we indians always giv females a good and respectable position with more freedom and rights.....tell me frm ur heart is it not so in india????? then y girls are misleading their life by coping western culture where u wil be given respect somewhat if u r a wife but what abt as a mother if u take western...

and only in west they do everythg as a business in advertsing, modeling, cinema and also they act as porn star and they marry 'N' no of husbands just by saying they hav more freedom and rights to do all these things... do u think showing her body and making money is a kind of female rights and freedom....i think u hav some other name for this business......as a indian girl u know and aware of the name given to this kind of business......even though they call it as business dnt they hav some other decent business since only the western has 'N' no of good businesses

3) and also one important question i wan to ask to my dear indian sisters its ok u wear jeans etc...etc dresses any where outside but why todays girls are wearing the same western dresses and going to such a holy places like temple where we believe god resides?????pls tell me frm ur heart girls is this is right thing???? i saw many girls in temple coming in western dresses which i feel ashamed of am saying this as a brother and am really crying for that (what can i do other than crying for these kind of activities by our indian girls itself)

pls dnt goto temple with western dresses not only to temple but also to church and mosque where u hav god, elder persons, our parents and relations ,friends and neighbours????

4) am not forcing u to do so? but cant u think of that u r not alone spoiling ur name, ur family name, ur gurus name and also the entire country name wil get spoiled out of these way of dressing......everyone comes to temple church or mosque only for offering their prayers meditation and peace of mind..this u girls are well aware of i know and we r not going to such holy place to disturb others mind or peace....it should not be done atleast in temple church and mosque u maintain the dress code to help our males and save good names of our family and culture......

bcoz only in india prestige is totally based on the female members of our family.....a family in india gets good names only by those girls and they get bad names only by those.......bcoz in india everythg depends upon females only not even 1% good names by males as their mind set is like that(god created such a male hormone called testosterone) bcoz of all these reasons only they r restricting dress code in temple ok....please maintain ur decency in temple also.....try to learn more abt our reasons for culture
dear sweet_p user what i said is only born indian girls and not 4 u...pls read my question clearly and fully...am not against western and i didnt asked western people to follow this though it is applicable to all....am bothered only abt my indian sisters if u r my sister u wouldnt hav said this......u people wnt realise what dress and activity u involve if asked u wil say female freedom and rights and then u wil escape anyhow frm culture...what culture u r following is just came before 100 yrs where girls can appear in bikini or even as nude..u framed this rule under female freedom and rights dnt u hav anyother good rules other than this???but ours is more than 10000 yrs of culture right frm vedic period ..dnt answer just by reading this dear sweet_p read indian culture in wikipedia and then u realize the truth and need for culture.......

I'm an Indian. I'm going to attend my husband's niece's wedding in America. Is it appropriate for me to wear my Indian dress like a saree or do I have to wear western formal clothes?. Its a very fomal wedding and it does not have a dress code.

henna(mehndi)
saris
http://www.utsavsarees.com/pages/sarees.asp?cid=1&type=Wedding
http://www.ashkumar.co.uk/

for the askkumar one go into the site and click galleries
lol nowadays its not horses and elephants...its more rolls royce and
mercedes bmw :P

I am going to a church wedding followed by a reception at a hotel.I am an Indian (not native-Indian , like people from Asia) and very conservative. I do not wear dresses -like cocktail dresses or gowns. i wear conservative American clothing like long sleeves shirts, and pants and sweaters.
SO my question is,
-can i wear a saree to the wedding?
-do i have to have two different outfits for church and reception?
I talked to the groom and he said that there is no dress code.

will it be offensive if i wear indian dress?
or, can i wear some dressy blouse and pants?
i am new to american culture..the wedding is my husband's friend's.

Firstly, please let me know if they are cheaper in Chennai than in Kancheepuram. Some of my friends say that Kancheepuram Silk sarees are cheaper in Kancheepuram than in Chennai. However, few say that it is expensive in Kancheepuram because of the tourists inflow. I'm confused!! Please help!

Also, can you let me know shop names which sell authentic Kancheevaram Silk Sarees at reasonable price? (both in Chennai and in Kancheevaram)?

Thanks for your help.

I would like to know from experienced girls if wearing saree is more romantic while having sex. Most girls wear sarees however are they comfartable when having sex wearing sarees.

hi, i have my prom on thursday. I am from England and am originally indian. I am thinking about wearing a medium pink and gold saree with beads dangling down. Do you think i should wear it? please help! ( i ordered my dress online and dont think itl'll arrive in time)

I am an Indian and I am in love with a westerner. All my family are against it as they think I should protect Indian culture and traditions and not lose it by marrying a foreigner. But the person I love is very open minded and has no problems in me following my culture and traditions. My family does not believe this is possible and they prefer me leaving him. I do not want to let my family down and marry without their consent. At the same time, I do not want to forgo my love and do arranged marriage. Any way out ?

I know they can be a lil expensive i have a 200 dollar spending limit. I want something with Jewels classy yet trendy. We will be there for about 3 days so i will also need casual traditional Indian clothes, I been looking at Cbazaar.com but im not sure what all they include in the "saree" is the saree just the wrap? or does it include the blouse and pants and scarf? Please help Saree 101!!!