I am a Female-Identity Crisis or just cross dressing. Seeking a specialist doctor to diagonise my problem.?
I am a female of 21 years old living in Chennai, India. I have been wearing men's or boy's cloths since my childhood. I also play football and cricket with men. I hardly play any type of games with my own gender-female.
My parents are trying their best to change my attitude, and behave like a female. They want me to wear gown, saree, etc. I do not obey or sideline their request and suggestions.
Few days ago, I though why am I not living like a woman. IS it that I am keenly interested to be a man, desire to be a man, and behave like a man (that is sexual identity crisis) or just like to wear man's attire (cross dressing).
Can you please help me in finding a specialist/ doctor (preferably a woman specialist), who I could approach in Chennai. I would like to consult and know what is the problemin me.
Please help me.
Maybe you can get some help here:
http://www.sahodari.org/
They might be able to direct you to where you can get help.
I’m not in India so can’t answer your question but — do you feel like a man inside? If you do, you have gender dysphoria. If you just like to dress in male clothes and have masculine interests, you’re a crossdresser or a tomboy. Either way, the only thing you might want to do is change your sex and that really has to be based on what feels right for you, living the way you are or taking hormones and living as a guy.
there is nothing wrong with you and no specialist will change that. simply enjoy being the way you are, and seek to help your parents understand that you think you can still be feminine or a "good" female while having more masculine interests.
you need not go to any doctor.they will simply make you still more insane.try to watch pornography everyday atleast for an hour n also watch sex videos.this will wake up the woman in you to some extent.try to marry as soon as possible