I usually wear sarees and blouses and it always bothers me because when the blouse material is transparent, the outline of my bra can be seen from the back! My skin colour is very fair!

Even my bra hooks and the colour of my bra will be exposed! I always feel a bit shy!

Do any of you have this worry? Which is better, white bra or black bra?

Where can I get different choli models? Choli are blouses which are worn over sarees.

My fiance and I are having a mixed wedding that follows his family's Indian cultural traditions. Fortunately, my non-Indian family wants to wear Indian attire for the event. My mom and sister will be wearing sarees with custom blouses, so I don't need size help with that, but I will be buying my niece's outfit ready made and don't know how to deal with sizes. We will likely buy the outfit in India, but it is also possible we buy it in the UK or on the Internet. She will be 5 1/2 and probably around a 6T at the time of the wedding in 6 mos. (She is a Size 5 US now, I think.)

Also, my nephew will be a 1 year old by the wedding. He's hefty now. Any size suggestions there too?

THANKS!!!

I wear sarees mostly and blouses! Its always been a worry for me that the outline and colour of my bra is revealed through my blouse!

I am very fair in colour! You can say whitish-brown!

All my bras are either white or black!

Which is better, white or black when it comes to bra?

I need to get the blouses for my wedding sarees made, soem of them have to be quite designer. Please to suggest a good in fact best ladies tailor or designer botique who also do tailoring, in Kolkata. Will be veeeeerrrrrryyyy Thankful.

I usually wear sarees and blouses and it always bothers me because when the blouse material is transparent, the outline of my bra can be seen from the back!

Even my bra hooks and the colour of my bra will be exposed! I always feel a bit shy!

Does this concern you?

I am from a traditional Indian family and went abroad after marriage. In the new location, my husband asked me to wear either Skirt and blouse or shirt and trousers to align with the local culture. I was quite embarassed as I was not used to such outfits. and with my structure of 38-26-40 such outfits make it very embarassing and provoking. I tried to tell the same to my husband but he didnt listen. As it was only a few days after the marriage I had to follow what he said. I prefered Skirts and blouses instead of pants and shirts.
Very soon he took me to a party, and asked me to join in dance. When I hesitated, without asking again he went dancing and disappeared in the crowd. One of his friends came to me and started conversation and forced me to dance with him. while the time passes he came close and stared touching my waist and below. As the music went loud and lights dimmed, he took more advantage by hugging me with his hands on my bum. He kept beating and pressing my butts as per music. I was surprised and tried to move away. He held me close, squeezed my butts tight and lifted me up. He positioned me straddle his waist irrespective of my violent resistance and moved his hands under my butts. It was quite embarassing for me as my skirt went up to waist and my thighs were completely uncovered.He kept his hands under butts, groped my bare thighs and kissed me for a long time. I got away and pushed him back. He said that he wanted me to have some fun as I was getting bored. I blasted him saying that he need not bother about entertaining me. I sat at the table for a long time and after long time of thought I decided not to share this incident with my husband when he returned to me. Because no Indian husband can digest when his wife is molested by some one even if it is not her mistake. I tried to forget the incident even though it was difficult. I also avoided going out with husband to pubs and other events quoting some reasons. And I also switched to Pant and Shirts as I had bitter experience with skirts. above all I continued to try convincing my husband for wearing sarees but he still insisted that I would look odd there.

One day my husband invited that guy for dinner. I didnt talk to him at all and avoided even eye contact. But I had to take him to show wash room as per my husband instruction. He came with me till that corner and immediately hugged me, held both my breasts from behind and fondled quickly. I was bloody angry and pushed him hard to hurt him. He smiled and said it was just for fun. I came back running to living room. Since than he kept trying for me, but I always avoided. Even than he got some chances. One day while having meals at home when my husband went to rest room, he pulled my shirt up, applied the pickle on tips of my breasts and kept licking and sucking my breasts for nearly a minute. Many times I pleaded him and even threatened that I would tell my husband. But his reaction was only some more molesting.

I realized that I am getting in to deep trouble by delaying telling my husband. Whenever I thought about it, I was worried about how to justify on the delay. On a bad day, things went worst. 5 families went to an outing inside a forest in a bus and he came in a car.While we were returning, I missed in the guest house while the buses and his car left. He took the opportunity and returned alone to pick me back. Through out the journey he kept his hand on my thighs groping and squeezing the inner thighs. Some time he kept his arm around my neck and fondled my breasts. I was completely depending on him and didnt know how to escape that. On the way, he stopped at a place near water fall. He removed my clothes and carried me naked to the water fall. He felt and tasted every bit of my naked body. He kissed and licked even unusual areas of my body like my arm pits, and between thighs under water. I just could not fight with him in that unknown country.

On some holidaying I came to my country and I informed my husband that I would never go to abroad and told him to come back to India.My parents didnt understand why I took this stand. Even my husband was surprised and in fact was furious about my seemingly strange behavior as he didnt know the facts. I was very frustrated about my husband's lack of understanding in this whole process. Had I continued wearing the traditional sarees, no one could have dared even touch me. Since my birth it was only my husband who touched my body. Now this person explored more of my body than my husband even if he didnt penetrate. While I cant tell my husband on what happened I can still say it was his unfriendly behavior which kept me under continuous pressure.

that guy some how got my contacts and informed me that he wanted to marry me if I am leaving my husband. After thinking for many days, I decided to say Yes, for many reasons. Main reason is that an Indian woman can offer her body only to one person. Whereas this in the case, even though
After thinking for many days, I decided to say Yes, for many reasons. Main reason is that an Indian woman can offer her body only to one person. Whereas this in the case, even though there are two people, this guy knows more about my body and admired me more than my husband. I feel this is a genuine reason but some how I am unable convince me. Am I right doing this?

I am an Englishman and I often wear sarees, salwar kameez and lenghas at home. I have a large collection of dresses, but mainly sarees along with blouses and petticoats.
I find sarees very comfortable to wear, no matter how warm or cold it is and no matter the type of cloth it is made of, chiffon, silk etc. I normally have the pallu pinned to my left shoulder, but sometimes let it slip off instead. I love the way the pleats are kicked out in front of me when I walk and the way it covers my whole body, very sensual to wear. I do not wear bra under blouse and also no undergarments are worn under petticoat. I have been wearing sarees now for number of years, do not understand why I read that Indian women find them uncomfortable to wear even on a daily basis, I certainly don't feel that way when I am wearing a saree.

Would this be appropriate?
I know the dress code calls for a long dress that's tasteful.
Which brings me to another question.
What kind of blouse can I wear that's traditional and doesn't show the stomach?
I've seen some lehenga choli online that have the long blouses, but they are SO expensive! Can I substitute the short blouse for another?
Also, does anyone know an online store that might carry the long blouses?
BTW: I'm a girl. xD And please don't answer just to say "idk".

I usually wear sarees and blouses and it always bothers me because when the blouse material is transparent, the outline of my bra can be seen from the back! My skin colour is very fair!

Even my bra hooks and the colour of my bra will be exposed! I always feel a bit shy!

Do any of you have this worry? Which is better, white bra or black bra?

hi frndz...i wanted to wear a blouse with deep neckline on the back for sarees..what type of bra can be worn?as in most types the strap is seen at the back...is it ok if i stitch blouses supported with pads inside nd wear it without bra...or if u suggest for self adhesive ones where can i get them in chennai?

What are the best kinds of blouses to wear with Party wear saree? Plain or Designer, Single Color or Multicolor?