On 6th March 2007, we had the farewell party for all (hopefully) ''Soon-to-be-graduates''. That morning my mother was supposed to drape the saree for me which i decided to wear a night before the Farewell. We never attended any Farewell parties in our 1st & 2nd year. We found it a waste of time so we ended up bunking college on that day or we spent the day at shehla's place (our escape) watching movies.

I woke up on the day and tried to wake up my mother for the saree. But! Apparently she was not feeling too well and she asked e to go over at afrah's place and let her do it. Now, as much as I was delighted to see afrah that morning. I was also afraid that she wont be able to drape the saree the way it should be. (i lived under an illusion that only mom can do it the best!)

Anyway, out of any options left I called up Afrah to check if i can drop by at her place and she could drape the saree for me.She agreed to do it and I took my saree at her place with whatever few cosmetics i possessed. I didn't expect her to agree to get ready with me but to my shock she did. When i entered her room she was getting ready. P.s. she looked hot ;)

She had a look at me and realised what a mess i was in. So, she decided she'll drape her saree first and then mine. I took a small video of that in my phone with the sole intention of irritating her and after a few seconds I succeeded as she asked to stop recording or else she would smash my phone.

She then, draped my saree keeping in mind my constant requests of draping the saree ''AS LOW WAIST AS POSSIBLE''. Once, she did it i was pretty satisfied with the result. Infact, It was better than Mom (I hope, she is not reading this!) :P

Afrah then asked what am i wearing in my eaes to which i had no response. As I was a tomboyish brat I considered owning a pair of feminish jewellery as an insult or so I thought. So, then afrah got me these dangling earrings and asked me to wear them. When i asked her if she owned them she reaplied that it belonged to 'Juhi' (afrah's cousin). I hesitantly wore the earrings which added all the more charm to the way i looked. The saree did wonders to me.

All my classmates were shocked to see me like that and most of all, they were shocked to realize that i had a feminine side to myself. Throughout the day i was showered with compliments. But, I was a bit disappointed with the dept of my Blouse's as it seemed like Afrah a.k.a. Affu and Ammu had a secret competition of ''Who has the deepest Neck''. Though, Ammu won with her 14-Inch Broad neck which showed good amount of her back. Afrah had a 13-inch round neck. My blouse had a very very small neck.

Near the end of the day i was pretty pleased with the way i was looking. Afrah and I clicked alot of Ammu's pictures for a secret reason ;)

But, we were like rockstars or something of that sort. They were soo many girls from our class who wanted to click pictures with us. From the Padhantu Students to the ''Wannabe's''A

Just before we were approaching towards Shehla's car, we had a group of 'Padhantu's' a.k.a ''The apple of teacher's eyes''. I signalled Shehla to start the car but she said that it would be rather indecent to do so. Anyway, the group consisted of Tayyaba, Sakina, Mubeena i think. All Na-Na's. All 3 of them were complimenting on how smart and girly i was looking. What surprised me the most was the compliment from Tayyaba which goes like ''Ham log toh sonche the Ambreen-Afrah acche dikhinge, magar aap toh dono se bhi acche dikhre(we thought amby-affu would look good, but you are looking better than them)''.

I couldn't help myself but wonder, Do i really look so girly? Not that Afrah was. Afrah was girly only when needed. Otherwise, You'd find her in baggy jeans and t-shirt. Oh and before the party ended my lipstick was gone. .... another mysterious reason.

This is the pic that Azra wanted to take you can notice her black saree but she got cropped :P
Neverthe;ess, the party continued later at shehla's place not to mention the little accident on our way and my dear filthy mouth. Shehla won 2000/- rupees as she won the Ms.Positive at the Ms. St.Ann's competition. She shone like a star.

*Note : The photo will NOT be included here due to the Extreme Haut-Ness and Awesomeness that may run wild imaginations in the reader's mind. ;)

**Note: I don't have any problems with the Padhantu's or the studious ones but all 3 years of my college life, it appeared that the only reason for their existence in this world was to please all teachers even the bitchy ones. Oh and they loved to do homework which created problems for students like me, who thought we were grown enough to give a shit about the 'Homework'. Not to mention, their obsession to solve problems ASAP and flaunt it to the teach! So, that the rest of the class could look dumb.

I mss my college days.... :) despite the fact that it was like a ''JAIL'' we got away with bribing the watchman! :P

I am indian cross dresser . I like to wear sarees, bangles, zumka, chania choli, salwar kameez etc. I like to apply mehandi on my hands and feet. I want to become a bride like maharashtrian bride and gujrati bride. I cant control my mind if i see any beautiful sarees or any beautiful dress. I am very crazy about green bangles and mangalsutra. Specially i get aroused with silk sarees and zig zag sarees. I dont know why? I have attraction towords opposite sex only but still i like to wear girly dresses. Specially i am attracted towards my aunties sarees and her jewellery. I like to read cross dressing fiction stories. So want to ask you that is this normal behaviour or i need to consult with doctor. please help.........

I am indian cross dresser . I like to wear sarees, bangles, zumka, chania choli, salwar kameez etc. I like to apply mehandi on my hands and feet. I want to become a bride like maharashtrian bride and gujrati bride. I cant control my mind if i see any beautiful sarees or any beautiful dress. I am very crazy about green bangles and mangalsutra. Specially i get aroused with silk sarees and zig zag sarees. I dont know why? I have attraction towords opposite sex only but still i like to wear girly dresses. Specially i am attracted towards my aunties sarees and her jewellery. I like to read cross dressing fiction stories. So want to ask you that is this normal behaviour or i need to consult with doctor. please help.........

i have son of age 19. last week i cauht him while doing crossdressing. he wore my sarees, blouse bangles even my bra and panty also. he want to wear my all jewellery and dresses. i am confused wot to do. pls advice.

Pls help me
i have son of age 19. last week i cauht him while doing crossdressing. he wore my sarees, blouse bangles even my bra and panty also. he want to wear my all jewellery and dresses. i am confused wot to do. He is very curious about my bangles, nathani. even when we are going out side he is watching all the sarees. he is going in market with market for observation of all female sarees her make up her bangles even her blouse also. he like all the sarees specially zig zag sarees and dresses

i have son of age 19. last week i cauht him while doing crossdressing. he wore my sarees, blouse bangles even my bra and panty also. he want to wear my all jewellery and dresses. i am confused wot to do. He is very curious about my bangles, nathani. even when we are going out side he is watching all the sarees. he is going in market with market for observation of all female sarees her make up her bangles even her blouse also. he like all the sarees specially zig zag sarees and dresses. pls advice.

i have son of age 19. last week i cauht him while doing crossdressing. he wore my sarees, blouse bangles even my bra and panty also. he want to wear my all jewellery and dresses. i am confused wot to do. He is very curious about my bangles, nathani. even when we are going out side he is watching all the sarees. he is going in market with market for observation of all female sarees her make up her bangles even her blouse also. he like all the sarees specially zig zag sarees and dresses. pls advice.

Pls help me
i have son of age 19. last week i cauht him while doing crossdressing. he wore my sarees, blouse bangles even my bra and panty also. he want to wear my all jewellery and dresses. i am confused wot to do. He is very curious about my bangles, nathani. even when we are going out side he is watching all the sarees. he is going in market with market for observation of all female sarees her make up her bangles even her blouse also. he like all the sarees specially zig zag sarees and dresses

I am attending a tradtional Indian wedding very soon. (in Australia)

HOWEVER! It is a cross cultural affair - the bride is Jewish Anglo-Saxon and the groom is Fijian Indian. They have had a tradtional "white wedding" to celebrate the bride's heritage and now they are having a traditional Indian wedding to celebrate the groom's.

We have been asked to dress in Saris/Sarees; what should I look for that will suit me as a tall, fair (ie white) skinned, blonde female that will suit me but keep to all the traditions of an Indian wedding in style, colour etc?

Also, what about hair, jewellery, shoes etc?

I understand that red is the traditional colour for the bride, but is it also appropriate for guests to wear as well or is it considered a big no-no to wear the same colour like it is in more Christian ceremonies?

Help?!
The bride is taking a group of her girlfriends, including me, shopping for saris before the wedding, but I'm looking for some advice before I go so I know have more of an idea on what to look for and what to ignore so I don't have to constantly hassle her on the day!

i hava torquoise dress and though really deep purple will go great but i cant get any jewellery to match i am wearing black satin hi heels and hava black clutch dont want purple acessories any other suggestions?

its for a formal ocassion

this is the colour

http://humjoli.net/images/products/torquoise_pink_saree_a.jpg
http://img.alibaba.com/photo/11394724/Stylish_Enamel_Torquoise_Necklace.jpg
http://www.worldosigns.co.uk/colourchart/64_torquoise_M4-366M.jpg

not likeing silver or gold realy i want a bold colour

its my sis in laws wedding pls guide me is it good to wear black saree with golden jewellery at night and skyblue with silver jwellery in day it shuld be other way round?

Looking to buy my wedding and reception lehenga, couple of sarees for the other functions. Also jewellery and footwear?